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Most people would consider this method unacceptable to be used on hardened criminals, so who in their right mind could approve these methods be used against children?

The worst part of it is if even this method is said to be used only in instances when the child is "a danger to themselves or others" how can we really place our faith in the staff members to determine when restraint should and should not be used? I know my mother overestimated the ethics of the staff in the program I was in, and based on the administrating staff's prior history and the track record of the school and related industry I'd put good money on the chance that these methods are used way too often and in ways that can only constitute child abuse.

If I were a parent, aside from just pulling my kid as quick as I could I would DEMAND that a video monitoring system be set up and broadcast for parents to access at anytime. If Ken didn't have anything to hide then why would he refuse this request?

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I think innocently entering an institution that ordered staff to molest children, refusing to participate in child molestation, and turning the molesters over to the authorities is a fair reason to consider yourself "separate" from the molesters.

Okay, I can agree with that.  So a person is innocent like DJ enters an institution and is ordered to molest children.  He shows up for work his first day and just to give the program some leeway lets say they postpone the molestations until after the kids eat.  So how long did DJ stay at this institution collecting a pay check?  Any compassionate human being could probably only last a few hours before leaving and if you stayed around longer than that you would have to participate in the rapes and molestations.  I mean come on a person cant hide out in the “Break room” forever.  They have to come out and participate or they will be fired.
So did Dysfunction Junction last for more than a day in this institution?  If so how long can a person sit and watch others being abused and molested, collect a pay check and not get involved before they can no longer claim they were not complicit with the institution.  Is it fair that Dysfuntion Junction is trying to clean himself up here on fornits by asking for fellow staff to be exposed and given no privacy?  These same fellow staff who followed in the same footsteps as he while he hypocritically holds on to his privacy?

You may be the only person here who doesn't know who I am.  All of my particulars have been posted here before.  But, to give a quick answer to your supposition, I was a brand-new, freshly-minted college grad when I took the job at HLA and it did take me a little while to uncover what was happening out of my purview.  I found a phony doctor with no degree whatsover and that almost all of the staff had no academic credentials.  I also would not "tow the program line."  I did my job the way I was taught to do it - the right way.  I confronted Len about phony credentials and uneducated staff.  He didn't answer to my satisfaction and that was when I realized HLA was just a scam.  Then I resigned and reported HLA to every agency that I could.  And I've followed up for years to insure they can't hide in the shadows.

What's your excuse for propping up child abusers?

DJ

The point is that others may be taking the same path so dont be so quick to condem.  If you drew a paycheck then you did the work and over time turned over some rocks so give the same respect to others that you want for yourself.