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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / Re: Thinking Problem
« on: July 17, 2008, 07:04:46 PM »
Fantastic Ajax! That was hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!
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Held against my will
Who says it works? Every bit of reliable data says that not only doesn't it work but it causes serious harm, so......
Thank you, uninformed outsider/survivor.
I think that you would be much more credible ifQuoteyou would refrain from using sarcasm as a way of making your point.I agree but isn't it interesting that those who would support AARC (until you came along also "come across as somewhat immature and demeaning." And isn't it true thatQuote from: ""Interested""Iname calling, profanity, cute acronym substitutions and derogatory names for those involved. .are precisely the sort of techniques used by AARC to break people down as amply demonstrated in "recovering Crystal" which David Suzuki found so impressive. Your statement ,Quote from: ""Interested""There are many parents, friends, and loved ones who are profoundly affected by the agony of substance abuse and addictions. Those looking for answers do not need condescending attitudes and confusing information from both sides of the debate.is based upon the faulty assumption that those being coaxed into the program are suffering what they are claimed to be. My first reaction when someone tells me that they are an addict or an alcoholic is ask them "who told you that?" All too often it turns out they have come to believe it because someone in a position of authority doesn't like their lifestyle. If they are using drugs, few ever bother to query why, and almost without exception if their use has turned into abuse it is a result of negative life experiences or self-medication for some other underlying cause.
You say:QuoteIf the investigation proves that AARC is an abusive organization and Dr. Vause is an evil man then I really do hope it is shut down and he is brought up on charges. The truth will always come out.You seem to be in the know, is there really an investigation going on? In Alberta, where the top people in our totalitarian democracy have so actively supported AARC over the last 20 years? Is it going to take another twenty years for the truth to come out?, 30? 50? Certainly the current batch of politicians have got a lot of face to lose. Including Ron Stevens. And what about the Judges who seem to have taken so much from Dean Vause and his minions at face value? And the prosecutors, and, yes, defense counsel who will tell you that AARC is the "only show in town". I call it negligence that nobody in the AG's Department, or the Solicitor General's Department, or Children's Services has ever dared to question their paymaster's dictates. But then, this government has a history of firing whistle-blowers(remember Cardinal)
There are a hell of a lot of very influential people who are going to lose face if there is a GENUINE INVESTIGATION. Even the Children's Advocate's Office seems to have clammed up, as has my source in AADACQuoteFirst of all, I would like to point out that I have never heard of a cult that endeavors to reintegrate their members back into society and reunite them with their families. They are not encouraged to become healthy and productive members of society. The primary objective of a cult is to break societal and family ties forever.
From what I understand the seclusion at AARC is temporary until they are able to identify and deal with the root of the addiction. The seclusion is also not complete as family members are not only encouraged but required to attend certain meetings. When the kids enter AARC it is not known if one of the contributing factors to the addiction is in fact parental influence. Once the family dynamic is considered to be healthy then it is safe to have kids return home. All possible contributing factors must be removed at the outset. It is hard to treat a disease if the sick person is regularly exposed to one of the contributing factors. On the other hand, the most well meaning parent can feel the need to “rescueâ€
A judge can apparently put attending aarc as a condition on a recognizance order. Kid has to attend until discharged by the director. If the parents change their mind after being in the program and withdraw consent - the judge maintains the order and parents are out of the picture. Good as custody if you ask me.
AARC was accredited some time ago and continues to be successful. In fact, they just graduated their 200th client and I think the place just grows healthier and stronger over time. :