I was not told of a bbq, or else I would have been there, food is good, I never pass up good food since Elan, that food wasn't food. Understood that its not the time for you, but the invitation is always open. I know we went to Elan at seperate times, but i do understand a bit because I went through a lot of abuse in my days, although I am a bit older than a lot of the people on these sites. Keep in touch Art, seriously.
Thanks for the kind words, it means a lot to me