Posted by Carole Davidson (209.156.173.44) on March 16, 2000 at 20:02:00:
I talked to my daughter last night and she had been in contact with my granddaughter. She did receive my letter, but I had LAID A GUILT TRIP ON HER, AND SHE WASN'T GOING TO RESPOND; I would HAVE TO CALL HER. What I was trying to do was let her know we loved her, wanted to know what she expected from us so she would want to have contact with us and I FAILED, as far as she is concerned. Really hard to communicate with some one who doesn't elaborate so you can. I sure hope there will be counslers ready to help her, if she ever does leave.